> I have done what the law or insurance company wants to see and I have consultants as black sheep.
You hit a great point. The law and insurance companies have a major impact on what companies do.
If it's illegal (and they'll get caught) or the insurance companies say "do this to get insurance or if you don't do it the insurance doesn't cover you" people will make change.
That right there is a way to bring change.
Call your gov reps.
Let's get insurance companies to put security controls into coverage policies.