Ask HN: My site can't handle meaningful traffic. Help?
The site which keeps crumbling is a Cloudflare enabled (but I've probably screwed that up) Wordpress install running one of the preferred caching extensions. So the problem is either my hosting provider (Lunarpages) and/or my total inexperience here, and probably both with an emphasis on the latter. But there are two or three other projects on the server as well, plus a number of mothballed ones that I'm keeping available.
I'm willing to pay for this, of course. I'm paying Lunarpages for a dedicated server (and too much, at that) would gladly move at this point. And I'm not well versed, to say the least, in these issues, so I do not really think doing it myself is an option.
Advice welcome.