I'm in Berlin and feel fully integrated here. Whether or not that's possible really depends on location, there's many in Europe where it absolutely is.
And where the hell are the non-smokers hiding?
That said...NY's Central Park doesn't have shit on Tiergarten. Literally one of the most beautiful places I've been on the planet.
Someone said it too! I have had few arguments with people, mostly New Yorkers, over this.
I'd kind of consider that a selling point. Berlin is cool and is different from the rest of the country. But I guess whatever floats your boat.
It's why so many people flock to large cities - you feel less like an 'outsider' because the population of these cities is so varied.
Also, it is really not true that you can truly integrate, even in Berlin, without speaking German.