I didn't mean to come across as berating, but rather as suggesting a better way to link. I hoped that 'request' and 'please' would set the proper tone, but am certainly open to better ways of wording it. I meant 'always' to indicate that I specifically wasn't just complaining pointlessly about the present case, but rather talking about future links; but I can see how it came across like the scolding 'always' as in a phrase "you always do this."