I've been exclusively using Windows 10 since 2016 on my main rig as well as my laptop. While there are a lot of small annoyances, for me, it's been far from _on a daily basis_. I'd say, from 360 days in the year, I spend maybe 10 days dealing with some Windows bullshittery.
These are the things I changed on my system:
- Disable Windows Defender real-time scanning and related scheduled tasks.
- Use classic shell to replace the Windows start menu.
- Tweak privacy settings in the Windows Settings panel.
Everything else is pretty much default. Yes, I do update Windows on a regular basis.
There have been occasions where default applications associated with file-types break after an update, but for me this never occurred with the default browser setting. Not while I've been using Chrome, neither now while using Firefox.
I live in central Europe, maybe that makes a difference.
For my background, I mainly work on video game stuff, which is the main reason for running Windows. Still, it's development work (mostly C++), not just things that can be done in a browser where no actual interaction with the OS is needed.
Edit: I've not reinstalled the OS on my main rig since 2018-12-22.
Edit 2: My most recent hard-crash that forced me to power-cycle the machine was in March 2021. According to my notes it appeared to be related to the GPU driver (NVIDIA) and occurred while developing an application that utilizes Vulkan.