The more things change…
We’ve recreated that online. There was a brief golden age when only the early adopters were online with visions of a digital utopia and now it’s just like real life but crazier.
The same thing will happen if we go to mars. It will just be the same stuff just on another planet.
Wherever you go, there you are.
If there are genetic propensities to whatever would make someone healthy enough to travel to Mars, intelligent enough to run the machines, yet disconnect enough from Earthbound society that they wouldn't mind leaving the planet, that is what Martians would generally be like.
All sorts of cultures, online and off, involve members policing the ingroup for transgressions against the internal culture.
Language isn't "questionable", its usage is. There's no such thing as a bad word.
The culture of the internet (and, as a subset, that of 2022 mass social media in the english-speaking world, which is itself a subset of internet mass social media) is mostly not because of the internet, but because of the participants and the state of the wider world. The internet isn't responsible for wokeness, it's just the medium through which this particular human culture phenomenon travels.
I don't think you hate it, otherwise you'd do something else.