So now my eggs are strewn around in several independent baskets and I intend to keep it that way.
Like, what's an alternative to syncing your own calendar and so on.
Blogging I'm now doing at WordPress and also a static Jekyll blog on S3.
Contacts I'm keeping in Address Book and backing up by hand.
Calendar I'm just keeping on my Phone and backing up by hand.
I'm still figuring out what to do with Picasa. May just go for static galleries on S3.
I use NewsFire on my Macbook instead of Reader.
I'm using DuckDuckGo for searching.
I never really used Google Docs anyway so that was easy.
I still use Chrome but I've turned off everything (I think!) that sends my data to Google.
All in all this is more work than a single, centralized account but I feel better about it.
i looked around for a different provider. the best i found was http://www.runbox.com/ - it wasn't as good, but it was the closest (the main feature missing was tags; their support was very good).
but in the end i ended up handling email myself (on a linux box). it's very much not the equivalent, in that i use a console client (mutt). but the part that i most needed - search - works well using mairix http://www.rpcurnow.force9.co.uk/mairix/ (very fast, flexible command line tool for searching maildirs).
unfortunately this doesn't generalise well - i can't imagine most people would be as happy using command line/curses based tools or configuring their own email services.
I've been compiling a list of places that I could move to and use my own domain.
So far I had:
lavabit.com fastmail.fm zoho.com domains.live.com
Might give them all a go and report back in a Jekyll created blog post on S3 :-)
I believe I recall reading Google itself saying that if you delete your G+ account, that has the same effect as if Google had suspended your account (whatever that means from day to day).
So I believe, whether you self-terminate or suffer suspension) that you lose partial functionality on Picasa. You can still store photos, but anything related to sharing is dead. Don't know if that affects pictures on Blogger.
For Reader, I think you can still use it, but you can't share posts.
Or something.
As time goes on, more Google services will take on more social activity. There's Data in them thar hills! Email, by the way, is the ultimate social activity. Google knows that, because they give you 7G space just for email storage. So expect your gmail account to some day be at as much risk of loss as any other Google service, by their TOS, if you run afoul of the Real Name policy, or any other anti-social policy that they come up with.
There might be a couple reasons why your Real Name connected with yours and others' activity is interesting to Google. Either they're trying to help you have a civilized conversation with known associates in the online equivalent of a fancy coat and tie required restaurant with an assortment of mysterious cutlery and gold rimmed crystal. Or they want to make ads more valuable.
I think I hear Occam sharpening up his razor.