I found some references here:
"Custom elements cannot be self-closing because HTML only allows a few elements to be self-closing"
https://developers.google.com/web/fundamentals/web-component...
It seems only void elements are allowed to be self closing:
https://html.spec.whatwg.org/multipage/syntax.html#void-elem...
The trailing U+002F (/) in a start tag name can be used only in foreign content to specify self-closing tags. (Self-closing tags don't exist in HTML.) It is also allowed for void elements, but doesn't have any effect in this case.
https://html.spec.whatwg.org/multipage/parsing.html#parse-er...