I think you have a point there, but it could sound less condescending. It is really putting off. I personally don't think it leads to anything constrictive, only makes people feel worse about themselves.
Maybe, but to be honest, that was the re-edited dialed back version. The original post I replied was way to trollish/consipiracy pushing. "question no one else will ask" is just obvious attempt at a dog whistle, but instead grabbed the football ref whistle.