Ugh.

I'm firmly of the opinion that if anyone uses a sane programming language first, they'll absolutely do anything they can to avoid C++.

Corollary being, 1) if C++ is your first language, you'll end up learning all these rules and exceptions to the rules and assume that is just how it is (this is the way I think about Python), and 2) if you use C++ you are aiming for performance that alternative languages cannot provide. I'm glad the gap between alternatives and C++ is narrowing. If I could, I would never write another line of C++ again. Rust and Zig are FAAAARRRR better alternatives to me personally, purely because there's fewer gotchas I have to keep in my head when attempting to do anything with those languages.