As usual in biochemistry, it is the dose that makes the poison. But also mode of consumption.
We are indeed well adapted to consuming fruit. Even though modern fruit is bred to be much more sugary than its natural predecessors (ever tried eating a wild apple from a tree on a hike? Insanely sour), there does not seem to be any kind of health problem associated with consumption of raw fruit. We have a lot of metabolically sick people around the world - over a billion probably - but few of them, if any, have gotten to that point by eating too much fruit.
Fructose is not fruit, though. Even very sweet fruit like mango has only 16 per cent of fructose per weight. Fructose itself is 100 per cent, it is refined, concentrated stuff, from which all fiber has been removed.
Fiber that naturally occurs in fruit and veg slows down processing of fruit and veg in the digestive system - it takes fairly long (hours) to extract all the fructose from an eaten piece of fruit. As a result, the liver isn't overworked - it receives manageable quantity of fructose over a long period.
Now compare a situation when you drink a litre of sweetened beverage. That is a lot of fructose - you just drank an equivalent of seven? eight? apples in half an hour or so. And all that sugar comes in liquid form, so it enters your blood very fast, producing a huge spike. The liver is overwhelmed. It can cope somehow, but do this ten thousand times and some negative outcomes are bound to follow.
There is a scientist (Robert H. Lustig, professor of endocrinology at UCSF) who, more than a decade ago, published a long video called "Sugar: The Bitter Truth". It is stuffed with various biochemical observations and longish, but I found the information useful.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dBnniua6-oM