I am not talking about reparations. No one is looking for charity or concessions from Europeans anyway.
I do not think very many people hold a grudge either. You are just firing all over the place.
My statement is simple, Europeans are used to seeing their colonies as a poorer and miserable mirror image of themselves.
As much as a white evangelist see their recent converts, as a white man's burden.
Except for political independence, colonial institutions and traditions remain the same on both sides. Whether it is the BBC, the labour party, the royalty or the universities their mindset remains in the colonial Era.
There is a clear repulsion to intellectual independence or the ex-colonies developing independent institutions. This revulsion is similar to the one a white evangelist feels when native traditions or religions make a come back and he/she is loosing his/her flock.