centralized = one party holds all the power. decentralized = many parties, each of which do not hold all the power in isolation, therefore must come to consensus on a case-by-case basis to make decisions. equating decentralized consensus to "oh but that just means they become a centralized single party in aggregate" is an incredibly stupid take. just because I can agree with 4 other parties that one transaction is valid does not that mean that I somehow merge with all 4 of those parties into an entity that has the exact same interests for everything else. can you understand that?