If you are a knowledge worker, this is frequently lacking. You might spend months or years working on something without knowing of you'll succeed. You might get stuck (eg, debugging) and not be able to see any progress for long periods of time. You might be blocked from making forward progress because you are waiting on other people. And at the end of the day, what you accomplish might not be very visible or might end up being finished but useless.
So it's nice to do something where you feel like you actually did something.
In the end, I built something I wanted.
“Usually,” the man said, “I work on alien religions… I catalogue, evaluate, compare. I come up with theories and argue with colleagues here and elsewhere. But the job’s never finished. Always new examples and even the old ones get reevaluated and new people come along and come up with new ideas about what you thought was settled. But,” he slapped the table, “when you clean a table, you clean a table. You feel you’ve done something. It’s an achievement.”
> from Use Of Weapons, by Iain M. Banks
If you make your bed every morning you will have accomplished the first task of the day.
It will give you a small sense of pride, and it will encourage you to do another task
and another and another. By the end of the day, that one task completed will have turned
into many tasks completed. Making your bed will also reinforce the fact that little
things in life matter. If you can't do the little things right, you will never do the
big things right.
And, if by chance you have a miserable day, you will come home to a bed that is made
— that you made — and a made bed gives you encouragement that tomorrow will be better.
If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.
- Admiral William H. McRaven“Without courage, men will be ruled by tyrants and despots. Without courage, no great society can flourish. Without courage, the bullies of the world rise up. With it, you can accomplish any goal. With it, you can defy and defeat evil.”
It usually even fills me with the opposite feeling. I don't like sleeping in "made beds". They're very constricting. A made bed may look tidy, but I don't look at my bed other than when I go to sleep.
So now I find meaning in making the bed, because she likes it made.
Growing up in India in the 90s, we generally made our beds (in a more literal sense) in the night: unrolling a dried grass mat [1] on the floor, a few blankets on top of that (a woollen one in the middle if it's winter), and a pillow or two. In the morning, the blankets were folded, mat rolled up, pillows and everything stashed away in a shelf until it's night again. The first time I came across this expression, I thought this is what they meant - to make this contraption in the morning itself!
[1] https://duckduckgo.com/?q=dried+grass+mat&iax=images&ia=imag...
Your question only looks like a puzzle or paradox because the word "work" is overloaded with many meanings and it includes simultaneous connotations of negative "unpleasant chores" and positive "fulfilling efforts". (related concept: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Equivocation)
If those multiple meanings are not understood, one can twist themselves into rhetorical puzzles such as:
- If marriage is work, why do people get married? I thought people hated work?!?
- If raising kids is work, why do people have kids?
It's because the type of "work" above are activities where many people desire to expend the effort. There's a higher goal than any so-called "work" above.
Same idea as a home sewer that "works" for weeks on their own dresses and jackets while the factory sewer only thinks of needlework as "working at a job". If one asks the home sewer if making that jacket "took a lot of work", the hobbyist will answer "yes" without any irony at all.
So asking, "why did the home sewer create extra work for themselves to create dresses?" ... would be another variation of your question about you building sheds.
In this sense, shed-building is somewhere between work and play. The act is enjoyed roughly as much as the product.
Now I want to build a shed.
It posited that we each have x amount of capacity for different things and success in life hinges on figuring out how to hit x consistently across all categories.
Someone whose capacity for reading is 5000 pages per week who has a job that requires 4000 pages of reading will come up with hobbies that provide another 1000 pages of reading. If crunch time requires 5000 pages per week temporarily, the hobby will disappear. If he gets a job requiring 5500 pages of reading, the hobby will disappear and he will start to burn out.
Building the shed filled a different bucket. It required different skills and activities that met some unmet need. Kind of like still having room for dessert after you are too full for more of the main course.
I am 50 now and need a new focus. As you mention, we have x capacity. I am hoping that my "this time 5 years ago photos" in 2027 are not pictures of sheds :-)
I enjoy building stuff and I’m just going to build stuff for myself and if the end result is I enjoyed shop time then that is a success and time well spent.
I know very little about software engineering as a trade, but it seems that half the stuff on HN is tooling used for making software. It is obviously valuable.
If what you intend to be working on is tools, more power to you, but it's very easy to get caught up in building a new workbench, or adjusting the settings on your window manager, or writing a new programming language, and forget the thing you actually intended to make at the beginning using the tool you stopped to make.
At some point you have to stop making tools and start making other things.
(Unless you're the GP, who is just consciously making tools for fun.)
Its funny that I'm very pragmatic with software work though. I don't spend any time looking into new/upcoming languages or tinkering with compilers or whatnot unless I have a work project. It seems like a waste of time since the software world turns very quickly.
OP: Admit it, you want your friends to call you 'two sheds': https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CA8xTGP_M8g
I think there was a term for that general framing but I have no idea what it was.
Good luck in your search. Let us know if you succeed.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/understanding...
Working with your hands and retreating to your shed allows you to sooth / calm rather than getting deeper into those stress hormones.
For me, it also gives time for reflection.
From the BBC: Men's Sheds: 'It's about so much more than making things' -> https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/uk-northern-ireland-49615371
Have you read Daniel Pink's When?
He talks about rhythms with most people being morning people - alert in the morning and ready for analytical work, entering a trough in the afternoon, then recovering in the evening. Are you mainly doing your shed work in the afternoon/evening, after work?
I think a lot of us are type A, we can't sit still but also know our brains need to recoup and do something else. I tried to write some code but honestly I'd rather finish my ethernet project. Life is a marathon not a sprint. You gotta recharge sometimes and honestly you may learn something different that shapes how you think. Steve Jobs always said Calligraphy was the reason he thought about fonts on a GUI. Why the hell was he taking that class instead of hustling? :-p
It's completely wise. We aren't designed to just do one thing over and over. Life is so much more than building a SaaS or making money. You know we could go tomorrow right? Anything could happen and the future isn't guaranteed. Obviously, stay motivated and keep driving but sometimes you gotta replenish your gas tank and take care of your physical/mental health.
I suspect they probably billed Monoprice like $5k, and there wasn't even any drywall work because I had put in proper junction boxes. They probably botched it too, at least compared to my standard. At least the new cable seems to work at full speed.
In my particular usage it was all single story and so the lack of the claimed UL rating didn't seem to materially matter. I mentioned that to the various points of contact that I had, but it was 2 or three layers deep of subcontractors, and they just trudged ahead with their directive.
The funny thing is that Monoprice sent me another 500' spool of properly rated cable, and the contractors didn't bother to take the 400' or so left of unused faulty cable. So, I have a bunch of "free" high quality but unusable for construction cat6.
I think there is a confusion with working and relaxation in today's world.
We look at the world as work as the necessity and relaxing as the goal.
I think the Jordon Peterson line of 'purpose' is key.
'Work' is doing for someone else for a living. Purpose is doing for self. And building Saas infrastructure sounds like helping someone's else company, but that shed is for you.
For me I moved to a small farm a few years back and working from home. I'm always busy, like non-stop something to do between work and farm. I've had one proper holiday in 5 years as the farm consumes life outside work but the farm work is my purpose. While it's not 'relaxing' it's fulfilling and the moments I pause and take in the view while sweating away it completes you.
Now this next opinion I'm less confident in, but I think this ties in to above and there are certain personality types that need to do stuff vs relax. For me I don't do nothing well. It seems the dream but whenever I've tried it doesnt suit me. I need projects to be fulfilled. Sometimes when tired and stressed I wonder why I keep adding tasks to my life, but I'm more happy that way than going the other.
Anyway I feel I'm starting to ramble a little but I think it boils down to is adding work is not a negative, and more work is a positive within reasonable bounds and something you can feel achievement. The task is balancing between work for others purpose and your own is what matters.
But I think another part of the solution was a certain level of mediation. Aspiring to a project is a kind of indulgence in itself, and deciding to relax my aspirations a bit gave me room enough to actually complete one of those projects.
Frankly, it's a nice break. We spend most of our lives in the ethereal, the abstract, and where we often thrive on guess and check without physical consequences/limitations to what we do. Building my garden required measuring, digging holes, cutting lumber, unburying issues (literally), adapting to mistakes, and all of my ideas turning from paper to reality over a span of weeks.. many weeks.
It exercised a different part of my brain, taught me a bunch of new skills, gave me some perspective, and was completely exhausting, but it's AMAZING to look out the window and see it there ready to go for the spring.
I documented my work here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVPpofrZKG8MKVbl0qMYPgw
Also, it's fun?
Learn how to use my hands
Not just my head, I’ll think myself into jail
Now I know a refuge never grows
From a chin in a hand in a thoughtful pose
Got to till the earth if you want a rose“
— Hammer and a Nail, Indigo Girls
It is good and right that we do these things.
I think there is truth in this statement and believe that asking my next door neighbor that has built two sheds in their back yard to help me with a job would work out far better than asking my next door neighbor on the other side that is always lounging on their deck with a drink in their hand.
It gives me a sense of completion amongst all the chaos, the never ending deadlines, numbers, algorithms all of that. I also find a sense of pause and rewinding when I work on cars whereas doing anything even remotely close to the office, be it reading a nice book. Still gives me some anxiety, so the change of location (especially now) is really nice.
Plus, I’ve noticed that when I work with my hands, I get less issues related to pain in my hands/wrists. It kind of acts as a workout for my fine motor skills, that would otherwise atrophy if I’m only typing or doing less strenuous work.
IMHO, software development is a rollercoaster of exciting highs and lows. While woodwork, creating something tangible with your hands... it's something else. It's a perfectly balanced sweet continuous feeling of pure zen that you don't want to stop.
I believe it can make you more productive when you return to your main work.
Either way, it’s the past - you’ve already built the sheds and can’t get that time back.
Life is short and fun is good. You’re going to die anyways. Might as well enjoy the time you know you have. This includes giving past you some leeway.
I'm not a woodworker, craftsman, artisan, artist, etc. but tinkering in that shop has brought me more joy and peace than I've had in years.
As happy as I've been with some of the work I've produced on a computer it just isn't the same (to me).
This is obviously your subconscious planning for your next career :-)
I’ll see myself out.
I’ve built a shed for many of the reasons mentioned and it was such a rewarding and gratifying experience.
Just seeing that constant tangible progress and the primal feeling of building something that protects you from the elements felt strangely satisfying.
I documented the process in here. https://eduardosasso.co/blog/how-i-built-a-wfh-shed/
https://winstonchurchill.org/publications/finest-hour/finest...
It’s also nice to have a low stakes hobby, I haven’t made a shed before but spent the last year getting into fixing things (automotive & household items) as well as home improvement.
(Highly recommend getting the basics of car repair, just being able to diagnose a problem will save you so much frustration)
So many times I have had faults with cars, it has turned into long debugging sessions trying to work out what the fault is. Be very careful with intermittent faults: they can drive you mad for months even if your root cause skills are good. It certainly isn’t a relaxing diversion from my normal job.
My deck was 'done' when I sat on it one evening and had a beer while my son jumped on the trampoline :-)
My wife comes from a family where they would hire someone, and her mother is amazed that someone 'geeky' like me can actually do work with my hands - In the past year I've done a full kitchen, bathroom reno and build phase one of a large backyard deck.
Even mindless hauling of a few yards of gravel is easy - load the wheelbarrow, push it, dump it, repeat and the progress is quite visible, you start to anticipate when it is about to be done. I don't get that feeling, not like you're watching the line count in the editor to know that when you hit a magical LOC number you're done!
I think it is vitally important to develop long term interests on one or more things you can use to be busy in life outside of work. For most people this means a hobby of some sort. It can be anything, really.
I say this because I have personally seen the consequences of not having this as older family members grew old, retired and set out to live the rest of their lives.
Those who knew how to keep busy seem the happiest. They are cooking, woodworking, gardening, building and flying model airplanes, etc.
The few who developed no interests or hobbies outside of work quickly descended into a sorry state centered around depression. Most of their time is spent watching TV and consuming the garbage we have on social media today. Their daily regime includes popping pills to control depression.
The shed, for some, might be important for this reason. Not for the present as much as the future. It might be the place that allows you to keep busy and enjoy both mental and physical health as you grow old.
https://www.wayfair.com/Lifetime--Galvanized-Steel-Foundatio...?
They use them on TuffSheds, iirc. It's not adjustable. Not sure if it would sink into the soil or not.
How do I know? I have struggled against the habit for decades. I try to cultivate an admiration for any cowboy solution that is fast and achieves the goal.
Google: over-engineering; yak shaving.
We live in a world where even if the outcome is measurable, often times, it is not in our control. A shed, the gym, other such "hobbies" are tangible goals with indicators along the way where our influence of control intersects the measurable progress we see. These are essential to sanity, methinks.
https://www.gyford.com/phil/writing/2003/08/18/david-lynch-o...
Why do I find those interesting only when I am busy? My hypothesis is that some unconscious part of me is trying to escape the discipline.
If you do it yourself, you know it will be done right. No corner cutting.
Although this "can't let go" or "can't delegate" mentality can have its own set of issues.
I recommend this book on the topic: https://www.amazon.com/Reality-Broken-Games-Better-Change/dp...
I do this too and it works for me. Better than binging Netflix. What would be your alternative?
Is your name, perchance, Arthur?