Also learning about complexity science, ecology, and human culture over millennia.
You’ll learn more than from any book.
I would never have believed it until I tried. You can’t reason yourself into mental health but you can silence and focus yourself into it.
WRT mental health Buddhism has forgotten more than what western science has figured out.
I got into a situation with a friend who I now assume has ADHD. I’d not noticed before, because our circumstances didn’t reveal it. We were just dog owners, and our dogs were friends.
Then I invited her to stay at my beach house for a week, in gratitude for her minding my dog.
While there, she initiated significant renovations, ripping up the carpet, removing the vertical blinds.
But she didn’t finish most of the tasks! 3 weeks later the curtains were only half done and the place was unrentable.
Her response? Start new projects, also incomplete.
I tried to understand through empathy, but I realised I’m not able to imagine what’s going on in her thoughts.
Maybe that’s always the way. I’m thinking empathy is only really possible when you’re sure the other person thinks the same as you.
I’d never recognised the need to calibrate this.
To your credit, you recognized your empathy has limits; while having empathy is crucial for functioning socially, so is self preservation.
- Cuda, physically based rendering
- ML
- All things related to home ownership (holy crap there's a lot!)
- How to manage adhd
- Interpersonal and relationship skills
so, to me, that is to say, the abililty to write spa-like apps... without having to 10x the complexity and brittleness of your app.
alternatives would be react/angular/vue.
other 'simple' alternatives would be htmx/alpine/inertia/etc.
i figure, at least with rails, you have one benevolent (?) dictator saying, "This is the way we're going to do it" - that can be useful, imo.
Laravel tried the same thing and it didn't go over so well, but I'd guess 50% of that blowback was due to The Great TailwindCSS Push of 2020.
Decided that I'm going to go study CS this year and realised that I don't remember a thing from HS math.
- Learning to adapt to a life I don't enjoy
Happy new year!