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I was a late bloomer in the latter (like very late due to being overweight for most of my teens and early 20s) and I don't have any big wisdom to share except don't lowet your standards and let people treat you like crap just because you think you're getting on the train very late in the game.

Thanks for sharing!

Nothing to share directly, but I just want to point out 2021 was not a great year for finding love. Don't be so hard on yourself. Keep trying in 2022, it will be much better.

And you're already making it easier for your future yourself by building muscle. Keep training hard. I wish you all the best.

Thanks for the wishes! I'll persist on.

Relationships are hard, they require constant effort. Beyond being an attractive human being (i.e. take care of yourself, physically and mentally), it's all about emotional intelligence and communication.

I had the opportunity to travel and I met my better half as a result of that trip.

My advice, do something that takes you a bit out of your depth, you could meet new people as a result.