Ah I still play a lot of BGEE/BG2EE (judging from the time spent on Steam it's well into 200+ hours for each game) nowadays. I'm also picking up NWNEE as there are a lot of high quality modules.
The lack of turn-based game play is why I avoid most other games.
Another option is an option to switch between real-time with pause and turn-based at will. The Pathfinder games do that.
'Go for the eyes, Boo, go for the eyes!'
NWNEE looks good, I played also Tides of Numenara, which is a 'spiritual successor' of Planescape Torment.