Marriage Requires Amnesia

I suppose this is meant to be wry humor, but it just comes across as depressing. I've been married for 20 years myself, and yes, sometimes my partner's habits can be irritating, but I mostly thank my lucky stars we found each other. Especially since I'm no angel myself.

The author needs some therapy, or maybe just a divorce. Although it sounds like she'd be just as unhappy with another partner, or single.

I've had horrible moments in my marriage.. but we both have ADHD and I think we, at least I almost always forget the things that troubled me... probably wouldn't have lasted 16 years...

easier to forgive when you're distracted by something new and forgot why you're even angry...

That person has a deeply uncomfortable relationship with her life. It's really saddening to read.