I've been attempting to train myself to be more open minded. For example, I have been skeptical of functional programming because my assumption was that it was an academic thing for those that didn't have to live in the real world of state and mutability. I thought it had to be less efficient.
Some investigation proved me wrong. Russ Olsen set me straight:
Functional Programming in 40 Minutes • Russ Olsen • GOTO 2018
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0if71HOyVjY
We don't have to copy a million element immutable array to change one element. We copy a section of it and keep the rest in a tree structure of changes (this happens under the covers). Secondly, manipulating the stateful world is easier to understand if we isolate those actions in Atoms and Actors.
Now I see the beauty of it so I'm glad I investigated.