Point 2 is exactly right, and is partly why this is so piqued. Point 1 used to be correct until around 2019, when DAO governance (and to some extent NFTs) began to attract much more left leaning crowds.
Ultimately blockchains are frameworks for multiparty governance. The implementation doesn’t have to be terribly libertarian if you don’t want it to be, and the actual blockchain protocol is only part of what comprises DAOs. I’ve seen smart contracts with “C-suites” and with voting bodies. It’s political legos.
So Web3 is now really the home of techno political ideologues in the broadest sense. I personally don’t find the notion offensive because this is, in fact, what decentralization has always been about: creating more sophisticated power sharing structures in virtual space. We can disagree about the implementation details quite a bit, but reducing Web3 to coins is like reducing America to dollars: you can make some valid points but you’ll miss some salient details.
NFTs make a little more sense when you view them as existing within one of the Web3 political regimes. The basic bet is that the NFT registry of your choice will have some kind of political legitimacy in the long run. Whether that looks like copyright or DRM or bragging rights or something else is not clear. Most sane people I know are aware that it’s a bet on future value, and for now enjoy it as a social toy.