... meanwhile according to this logic women are only valuable when they're just out of puberty and then they spend the next 70 something years invisible but yes let's talk about male trauma
First, it’s natural to expect children to be more traumatized by an event than adults.
Secondly, the period before and after a peak is a slope, not a sudden drop into nothingness. This means that a thirty year old woman is not “sexually invisible”. Similarly 40 year old men aren’t invisible either even though they supposedly peaked at 30.
Want to know why some older man is a jerk and treats you wrong and it might be the reason why: he is still that younger man inside.