Note that I've been a Ruby developer for over 12 years now. Worked in Ruby-shops almost exclusively. Yet the performance is often so bad that I have to do work in python. E.g. quite recently a scraper, wrote it in Ruby -obviously-, found out that we couldn't get performance acceptable, rewrote it in python. Our ETL using Kiba-ETL had to be ported over to a rust-based ETL set because the nightly process took longer than 24 hours, causing it to hit it's own mutex locks. The Rust-based system ran this same data-conversion in under two hours on the same server.
This is not hate on Ruby. It's a known fact it's one of the slower languages and runtimes out there. It's getting better and getting there fast. Yet the tradeoff of being extemely developer-friendly is that performance suffers. I'd gladly take that tradeoff every day (untill it becomes inpractical and we port that ruby tooling to something else).