I'm game if i can buy a 3080 or 3090 or an equivalent ATI. I love desktops so i have nothing against it.
I was lucky and building before prices shot sky high and availability became so limited, so it might be harder to find a card you know for sure will fit.
There's a pretty large community around building small form factor pcs, and a lot of forums will have case/card compatibility lists.
I completely agree with you that laptops degrade way faster than I like