Hey can you please explain more on "FBSD is like Arch for grownups". I'd love to move to FBSD from Arch if it is actually a better system.
SystemD is no where to be seen. Much configuration can be specified in a few simple startup files. Jails offer in built container functionality. Bhyve does virt. Zfs is native. A fresh install uses about 100mb of ram.
New releases have detailed engineering release timeliness and processes, and release notes.
There's a great handbook (though arch wiki is probably better. Brittanica vs Wikipedia sort of thing)