No relation with anyone involved (although I suspect you know these people in real life) other than being subjected to their internet-drama. Anyway, much of what she posts doesn't mesh up. She wasn't attacked for being a woman, a successful woman or by some random hate sites that latched onto her for being a woman.

She was attacked, online, because she had recently partnered with a man who allegedly walked out on his family. A family that happened to include religious fundamentalists who hate divorce. Now that little detail changes a lot of the story.

She also happens to be in the business of... what exactly?

http://ittybiz.com/ittybiz-1000/ You're welcome to quote me anything from that page (or any other page on her site, couldn't really find a business-like statement anywhere).

Closest I got was:

We want to help 1000 people quit their jobs this year.

We’re still in the early phases of creating a small army of motivated, successful, fulfilled people who are ready and able to take charge of their life, their work day, their career and their mission.

Now that explains why the scam-buster site was after her. Pretty much the only kernel of truth in her original post was that some people were mean to her on the internet.

Big whoop.

Edit: And just for an example in case you're confused:

As a reasonably prominent female face on the internet, I always knew the day would come when it would get very, very ugly.

None of this hate came from being internet-famous, but by becoming involved (professionally? Personally? who knows) with someone getting a divorce.