If you think so much about an issue without the right data you will get wrong conclusions. In other words, garbage in, garbage out, no matter how smart(how good your processing unit is) you are. This woman looks intellectually smart, emotionally dumb and immature.
This woman had a pathological relationship and generalizes over it. She is projecting that relationship over everyone, and that is a serious mistake.
In spite of being an adult woman she has a "victim mentality" and a tendency to create a "self fulfilling prophecy" because healthy people will avoid her like the plague.
People that had a healthy relationship with their parents or people in general does not want or need to deal with people that consider every one else an abuser, just because they were abused by someone.
If your father rapes you your mind will associate all men as rapists because he is the most important man in your life. But that is wrong.
If your parents are enemies inside marriage with a terrible relationship you will generalize all marriages as bad because it it the marriage that you know better. But that is wrong.
The way to deal with long lasting traumas is working on it emotionally, not rationally and usually over a long time too until you can make progress.