However, before pushing to production, you should always have some idea of typical user scenarios. What actions are they taking? With how much data? How often? In what sequence? Then, you load test based on that information. You identify that 20% of the ORM isn't going to work, and you replace it with stored procedures, or in-memory tables, or something.
For someone who grew up pre-ORM with on-staff dba-types who had to redesign their schemas on every little feature change, and thus recreate entire data layers, ORMS are FREAKING AWESOME.
But, you still need someone who knows what they're doing.