tl;dr, shares in a non-public company are a lottery ticket at best. Just like options, but more expensive.
tl;dr, shares in a non-public company are a lottery ticket at best. Just like options, but more expensive.
It reeks of unaccountable power and information asymmetry, two of my least favorite things.
Bootstrapping is great, but it also has challenged to overcome. Many fail to do it.
> It's an iterated game that they play a lot, and you play once, and they have no incentive to play fair.
The player who plays multiple times ("iterated game") has more of an incentive to play fair. That's basic game theory. If you only play once, noone can "punish" you in the next game if you cheat.
It's like when you get a mortgage - it's a once-in-a-lifetime for you, and a Tuesday for them. They know exactly how to (and have mechanisms in place) enforce every part of a contract they've been using and improving for decades; you barely understand the contract because its the first time you've ever seen anything like it, and you have no machinery in place to understand or enforce your side of it. They have one contract they enforce against 1M counter-parties; meanwhile you have 100 different contracts you're supposed to enforce ...at the same level of care and capability? That's never going to happen, and so all you're left with is heuristics like "surely they'll treat me fairly!"
It honestly seems extremely foolish to take VC money under these circumstances.
I think the main reason for these onerous terms is the fact that without them, the founders would cheat (not people like you or me, but rather, they would attract cheaters if they didn't work so hard to prevent them for succeeding)
If someone gives you a contract with an option to purchase shares, you have as much ability to analyse its risks as they do, and frankly if it is a contract to purchase X shares of a class that is so insufficiently specified that it can later refer to a diluted version of the same, then I don't know why on earth people accept them as good consideration. I don't know what laws apply to disclosures around share dilutions in the US, but it is one of the areas in which commercial law often tries to even out a noticeable information gap, just like takeover offers. But they can't save you from accepting it without knowing what it means and looking into how you can protect yourself from its risks.
Whereas, while the situation described by the GP is not unheard of, it's uncommon.
Anyway, your situation is why the common mantra, value your stock options at $0.
I think that's a wrong statement though. Stock options should have a binary value. $0 or IPO/exit value. If the company doesn't go all the way to IPO, you won't get a partial payout. So then guesstimate the IPO valuation of your options and factor the risk.
I also think that fact that management went out of their way to leave the common shares with nothing is scummy, bordering on unethical. Which is not the same as saying it's uncommon.
(FWIW, I was not one of the downvotes)