I'd also add that making white men feel unwelcome in an open source software project is very hard work. I am a white man, and would not for a moment feel uncomfortable about trying to contribute to node or Rust because of the indelicate mode of expression of this one individual.
E.g. with respect to the wasm-pack both sides have reasonable arguments in the thread how I read it.
With respect to unsubstantiated accusation, that very post makes accusations of nepotism without any proof.
Going around saying things like "Kill all men" is just about as obvious as a CoC violation can get.
Additionally, having members of the same governance body that are romantically involved probably isn't very effective strategically.
There would seem to be a massive conflict of interest there, if true.
We are committed to providing a friendly, safe and welcoming environment for all, regardless of level of experience, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, personal appearance, body size, race, ethnicity, age, religion, nationality, or other similar characteristic.
And the first line from the Moderation section of that same document: Remarks that violate the Rust standards of conduct, including hateful, hurtful, oppressive, or exclusionary remarks, are not allowed.
It's not just that it's a controversial political view -- it's a clear violation of the first rule of participating in the community. It's rules for thee but not for me.If you're a man, I don't see how it would be possible to feel safe or welcome in _any_ association with the Rust community when a prominent Core team member is advocating for you to be killed.
It's like saying that Hitler's position on Jews is just a controversial political view.
The link goes into detail about her effect on wasm-pack, the official Rust wasm project. Her personal views and behavior at npm aside, this alone should be enough to remove her from being part of Rust in any official capacity. I guess being in a relationship with Steve Klabnik has its benefits.
I guess the speculation is around whether or not she is the core member that might be causing friction with the coc.