Install your bootloader to the SAME partition as you installed linux in. This is not the default in either windows or linux - and it will try to scare you into not doing it. But do it!
Now, use your laptop's built in bios feature - "press f12 while rebooting" to select the disk to boot into. This will never fail. You can reinstall windows as many times as you like. You can burn your linux install and reinstall. They will never screw each other over and you will never be left unbootable.