I think you need to discuss everything that is going to be done as part of a ticket anyways. Asking at the end "Is everyone ready for estimation? 3, 2, 1 go" takes an extra minute.
2nd Splitting it in smaller parts forces you to examine all the parts and inner workings. Sometimes you will realise entirely different solution is needed, sometimes that there is an api call that will incur costs… and some of these things definitely have to be communicated to stakeholder, ideally before you spend significant times in development.
A wide range would spark a brief discussion (the senior would bring up the points that the junior is missing - yay knowledge sharing) and high estimates would usually result in breaking down.
The key is to keep it short, if need be timebox.
This helps in all kinds of ways. Engineers don't have to think about time when estimating, which tends to make estimates freer and thus more accurate. PMs/POs don't have to deal with too much uncertainty, because the distribution of time to completion over a given estimate is right there. It's easier to know how much can fit into a given sprint, and as soon as all the tickets in a given epic are pointed, you can know about how long the epic will take to get done.
Engineer time remains nonfungible, of course, but if the team is well balanced that seems to average out, and I don't (yet) know a better method of squaring a team's need for looseness with an organization's need for legibility.
I like this approach because time is such a weird thing to try and figure out beforehand. You either overpromise and look bad or over deliver but the thing you're delivering could get delayed because another team isn't ready. This other team will likely not be developers too, it could be a timeline imposed by the product team.
Time still has importance tho because something can be easy but still take a decently long time. You could rate something 1 story point but it could still take 3 hours all-in from dev time to do because it involves making a very straight forward change to 8 services which entails maybe creating an epic Jira ticket to explain the situation and then 8 individual tickets (1 for each service repo) + 8 PRs + 8 code reviews + updating 8 release docs.
The the oh-so-common 2 hour+ full team meeting scoping session, where half the team dosen't care what the other half is talking about since it's irrelevant to them - it tires everyone out and produces very little value for the impression of "we're now aligned".
Things only need to discussed if, when and only by as many people as required, everything else can be followed up later, it's really okay. Personally, I've always found things like 3 amigos to be much more time effective.
The problem isn't really seniority or juniority it's that doing this usually requires buy in all the way up to the CEO.
If it doesn't then the CEO pressures the CTO for estimates, the CTO badgers the middle manager for estimates, the middle manager badgers the project manager on your team for estimates and he comes nervously to you asking if you could please give him something resembling a date while he nervously wonders how much to pad it.
Each one has their asses on the line for the date.
You can be as "agile" as you like on a team but this wave of estimate badgering reliably turns on the waterfall every time.
That is, by thinking about how to solve it, in order to estimate time taken, one can come up with alternatives which might achieve the same or a similar goal with less work involved.
Maybe the customer doesn't need such a bespoke solution after all? Maybe we can ask the customer if a slightly different solution is suitable?
For example, recently a customer asked if we could make a new web API that they could query for some data. While estimating the point was brought up that just transmitting a xml/json file with the data once a day might be just as good and less error prone for the customer. After all the underlying data doesn't change more than once a day anyway.
So we ask the customer and once they think about it they agree it's a better solution all around. So they get what they wanted for a much lower cost, and we didn't have to commit a lot of resources to make a new API.