First, I have to learn stuff I hate just because the market currently demands it.
I can't really bring myself to do that.
With everyone jumping on AWS and the latest JS frameworks, I stick to programming in Go and deploying static binaries to a single/cheap VPS. I basically only have one library in my 'npm' depdendencies (a virtual dom library).
Second, You have to keep advertising yourself online to keep getting more contracts. I don't really know how to do that. I tried it in the past and didn't really get anywhere. I don't know how people get contracts with > $500/day rates. But still, even if I knew how to do it, it would probably still be stressful to some degree.
Third, You have to be content living in a small town. It's great if that kind of life suits you, but it doesn't really suit me. Now, being at the center of a big city is not for me either, but I like to be close to the center. I want to live in a place with lots of amenities and shopping nearby. Where a car is an optional luxary, not a necessity.
The point of money is to enjoy life. If you live in the middle of no where, what does it matter that you have a million dollars in the bank? Or even that you have a house?
I think for someone like me, going the independent product development route seems much saner/healthier.
Anyway, here's a side remark as well:
> We are all going to die, and Earth will explode in the Sun in a few billion years: please, enjoy some now.
What's up with people bothering with what will happen in a million years from now? And then concluding since it all goes away then only right now is important?
Like, why not, you know: now is important, but a 1000 years from now is important too.