For me the main turndown of using PHP is when I need to host the PHP website, php-fpm and Apache+mod_php seem to be the only two options. (FastCGI doesn't even have a proper specification).
roadrunner is a PHP server developed using golang, utilizing goroutines for high performance.
both used by Laravel Octane, providing very easy integration with the framework.
Other than that, php-fpm & FastCGI allows integration with many interestin webserver including Nginx, Caddy, Lighttpd, etc.
[1] https://github.com/swoole/swoole-src/issues/4434 [2] https://news-web.php.net/php.pecl.dev/17446
If self-hosting, Nginx and FPM is well-tested and very fast.