A redditor gets caught up in a triangulation scam and investigates
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If not pure larping, it may just be a case of scammers getting ever more creative. I sold a device on Swappa once, got payment, everything seemed fine. Before I shipped it, luckily (or not), I received personal emails threatening me and telling me I was going to jail and such. I still don't understand the scam completely, but someone apparently used a person's name, email, and finances to pay for something, and that person was able to get my info from Swappa so assumed I was playing a part.
If true, will be interesting to see how this shakes out.
Side note: My brother works fraud for a huge national bank. The stuff he tells me both amazes and horrifies me. I swear, if some of these scammers used their ingenuity for legitimate business, they could go far.
To give you an anecdote about how comprehensive these databases are - I signed up for Oracle's free VPS, just to see how it was. I gave one of my vanity VOIP numbers rather than my direct number (it looks like a made up number, think 222-333-4444). Since they have such a high touch sales process, this apparently got personally reviewed and flagged as fraud. Rather than getting an email or call from my card company, an Oracle rep ended up calling the landline of one of my past residences to try and get in touch with me. The number had never been given out as a contact for myself, but seemingly came up on the list all the phone numbers associated with me.
I think you have a rather naive view of how corporations and business actually work. Sure, you technically "voluntarily" use their services, but this is often because you're not given a choice either by the reality of economics, monopolistic practices, or even the law. My internet company oversells and underdelivers and doesn't really give two shits that they have terrible quality because they know our only other choices are even worse and they've lobbied themselves into a position to keep real competition out. Go to buy a car and the salesmen will absolutely push you to get your financing through them even if you don't actually need any financing. My sister has been threatened 5 times now by a collection agency for a loan she already paid off years ago. Funeral homes try to guilt you into buying caskets and flowers and shit through them rather than through third parties who are an order of magnitude less expensive, oh, and they have financing too! Cereal and toy companies advertise to children and coach them on effective ways to annoy their parents into buying their product for them. Pharmaceutical companies advertise directly to consumers to pressure their doctors into prescribing them stuff.
I can hear your response now, something along the lines of "It's their fault for falling for it". Capitalism as it exists today optimizes for sociopathy and people like you are so entrenched in that culture that you can't even see it anymore.
Your doctor didn't lie to you, the funeral director didn't lie to you. The salesman didn't lie to you.
Obviously they aren't trying to make the best decision for you, but it takes an awfully selfish person to believe it's everyone else's responsibility to spoon feed them optimal market information.
You just have a conveniently narrow definition of "deceive". Funeral homes use guilt to manipulate people into believing that they are somehow doing their loved ones a disservice by going with "inferior" (hint: they're not) third-party coffins and the like. Saying that isn't deception is a child's argument.
> Obviously they aren't trying to make the best decision for you
Yeah, in other words: "It's their fault for falling for it". Victim blaming is built in to our increasingly sociopathic culture.