Guess what, having a debit card in the Netherlands gives you protection against all of the above. Luckily not many people are ruled by scare tactics over here.
Lost your debit card for some reason? Just a simple click in your online banking app on your phone is enough to block the current one and recieve a new card the day after.
This is how it works in the US as well. What you haven't addressed is how you get money back in your debit account if someone manages to steal it. For that period of time, you are out the money until the bank resolves it. By definition, this is not true of a credit card.
Then they take some time to review the transaction and then they can take their money back if they think my chargeback request was not legitimate.
You go to the bar Friday night. Bar tender steals your cards info and starts making fraudulent charges. You wake up Saturday with zero money. End of working day refund means you have no money until end of day Monday.
The argument for debit is basically "I cannot control my spending without a hard limit". Everything about debit is the same as credit cards or worse.
Credit card interest rates are really high and people are better off getting charged a one time overdraft fee rather than buying stuff they cant afford and get saddled with high interest credit card debt.