I agree with you. Most my packages are around ~100 stars, and I'm met with a lot of respect and appreciation.[1][2]
My library for Correlation-IDs in Django[3] got implemented by AWX, which also was a nice experience![4]
Maybe it is the Django/FastAPI community, but "you'll get a load of entitled users" is straight up not true in my experience.
[1] https://github.com/Intility/fastapi-azure-auth/issues/24
[2] https://github.com/Intility/fastapi-azure-auth/issues/39
[3] https://github.com/snok/django-guid
[4] https://github.com/ansible/awx/pull/9332
(Bonus Correlation-ID package for Starlette/FastAPI: https://github.com/snok/asgi-correlation-id )