I don’t know where you are living, but it is trivially obvious that the vast majority of my taxes are NOT going to some elite. They couldn’t hide one tenth of your figure without it being obvious - what they do skim is publically known.
In New Zealand the vast majority of taxes gets spent on people working for the government and welfare payments to individuals (eg unemployment & pension).
This is personally verifiable: I interact with teachers, nurses, retirees, welfare recipients. I see how much money gets spent on large projects, and I see many of the recipients of those funds. I charge government departments for my software. I can estimate the total tax base and I can estimate the total costs.
I can read the government accounts, and I can do my own audit analysis estimates of parts of it. I can meet my members of parliament or local politicians.
Furthermore: talking about time like that is a fallacy. You belong to an economy and taxes are more like an accounting entry. A teacher might have 100% of their working hours working for the government, while a Facebook employee works zero hours for the government.
If you are from the US, your income comes from your economy, not your work as an individual. The government takes a cut, and most people in the world would love to pay the taxes so that they could earn the average US wage. Fuck all people can move between countries and “earn” the same amount - their income depends on the economy they belong to. If you are from the US, then you are the corrupt elite recipient of the taxes of the world poor. Your earnings come indirectly from Google, from unfair patent and copyright systems, from blowing up Afghanis. I am being facetious, but there is some underlying truth to why US citizens have a median income far higher than most others in the world.