So open discussion is not accepted, changes to the plan are not accepted because they're volunteers and can't accomodate everybody, merge requests are not ideal because they don't have time to review them.
Pray tell me, how does one contribute to GNOME?
And I maintain that hiding behind "I'm just a volunteer, I don't have time for that shit" is an excuse, and a bad one. There's a lot of volunteers in the open source world, yet discussion and ideas flow more easily elsewhere.