"which align with an anti-theming petition that some of the team members support (stopthemingmy.app)"
To me this is a bad way to put it. I don't consider myself to be "anti-theming" and I agree with everything in that petition, except for the title which seems to be inflammatory and has contributed to some of the confusion and upset about theming in GTK. The title could be changed and the petition would be much better, I think. But it is probably too late for that.