Also, I find Windows updates much more annoying than I find PlayStation updates.
I dont really see the issue of suboptimal experience to worry about. Modern games autodetect optimal options to play out of the box.
I'm not a console gamer, but I can see the appeal.
The whole pc vs console is like arguing what mode of transportation is better. Apples to oranges, use what you like and be happy about it.
But I don't recall ever having to configure a game because it doesn't work.
As a counter point though, there used to be stories of people buying a game on console and had to download 30GB patches in order to play it.
Also paying for subscription to play online games always irk me the wrong way.
Ether way PC or console there are pros and cons