But the very fact they are so damned sneaky about it makes it look really shady. Why not openly ask the users those questions and show them what information would be sent to the vendor? (And I am pretty sure Wacom is but one of many companies behaving this way.)
I vaguely recall using some applications built-in crash report a couple of years ago, and it was a) explicitly opt-in, and b) showed me (after asking me if I wanted to see it), verbatim, the data it was going to send to the vendor, including stack trace and stuff like that, and then asked me again if I wanted to send that crash report. (Unfortunately, I do not recall what software that was, though. sad emoji)
So I know it is not only possible to handle these things differently, but some people/companies actually do that.