It took me an hour but I made FB enjoyable for me again by making it a feed that is just my friends in chronological order. As a bonus there is no good way for the system that decides what to show me to be gamed, I just bookmark this:
https://facebook.com/?sk=h_chr
Preventing all the groups and pages I had interacted with before from creeping into that feed was the time consuming but worthwhile part. I had to go into my groups settings & unfollow them all individually though:
https://facebook.com/groups/feed/
same for pages:
https://www.facebook.com/pages/?category=liked&ref=bookmarks