I agree! I also think compilers are ridiculous. You spend much more time tuning their output and learning their arcane options and switches and pragmas than you would need just writing ASM by hand.
Also, HTML is not ASM, it's a very high level language. The ability to code a scant few hundred lines and nevertheless have that become a full-featured, rich, beautiful, and complete layout for a web page or a web app UI is tremendously powerful, and it's no wonder that high end web devs and designers take advantage of that. Until web design "compilers" approach anywhere within spitting distance (even within a factor of 2) of hand coded designs in terms of maintainability, cross-browser compatability, performance, and code size that's not going to change.
Well, compilers may be good for languages such as C++. But for most languages such as Python and Ruby, the code executed is just plain terrible compared to ASM. I don't see anyone writing Ruby code and complaining about that waste, though...
People (including me) like to delude themselves though. "I'm not a web/database/embedded developer. Here's a tool that will give me a quick win". But in the end because you find yourself debugging the mess that it generates you have to rewrite by hand anyway meaning that in the long run a quick win turned out to be twice as long as just sitting down and learning how to do it. BTW I think that DSL's could be the next thing that leads people down this path. A great idea but...