If you are on Windows you need to use an ASIO soundcard ?
We're all analog musicians playing alcohol powered instruments. ;-) Some of us are techies, others not. While I'm a techie, that side of my life has always been somewhat separate from the musical side, so I haven't paid that much attention to the digital technology until the pandemic came along. But I'm happy to learn, especially if something simple can make it work better.
Yes, sub-ms latency is hard. But the infrastructure exists.