You're jumping the gun on a lot of things. Military benefits, especially for a reservist, isn't as cheery and rosey as you're picturing it.
For example VA loans are only given to veterans, the same goes for the health insurance coverage.
In addition, I find it somewhat disingenuous that people (this might not apply to you, feel free to email me to say I'm a pompous douche) are interested in the military, to only want the benefits but not the burden that few carry.