Do Chinese planners expect to destroy a carrier group (~7000 soldiers) and not trigger a nuclear war?
What's the US going to do? Attack Chinese cities? And then watch their own cities burn?
No US president would issue such an order and even if they would the chiefs of staff would almost most likely disobey it.
I might have believed you some years ago.
If the US can elect Trump, it can definitely elect someone who would do that.