So as far as general advice goes, it makes sense to recommend trying to get those FAANG jobs if you can.
So as far as general advice goes, it makes sense to recommend trying to get those FAANG jobs if you can.
and it might actually be better to donate the diff between 300k and 175k vs working in a slightly more ethical place for 175k
this really triggered me. you basically say its ok to do shady things as long as you give something to the poor. sounds so much like "indulgence" in Christian churches where you could pay off your sins. sad.i'd say money is not a permission for you to do bad things, and it should not make you fell better about bad things you did (and continue to do) just by giving some of the money away.
There's a broader spectrum to donation than just donating to the poor.
In ten years, you will have saved more than Oskar Schindler did during the entire Holocaust.
But of course you have taken one path to the Trolley problem and Schindler (who joined the Nazi party) has taken the other. Now it remains to be seen whether history remembers Oskar Schindler the Nazi Party member or user vincnetas who avoided FAANG as the more ethical.
this is tangential to slavery where slave owners where treating their slaves very well, but fundamentally they still were slavers.
To put an example with Open Source, Amazon is pretty bad considered, while e.g. Red Hat is "one of the best".
But I don't mean those extremes, I mean more mundane companies. Let's compare say Apple (neutral-ish?) and Stripe (neutral-to-slightly positive) (note: about Open Source!!). What do you think would have better impact in the OSS ecosystem, to work at Apple for $300k and donating $125k to open source projects, or to work at Stripe getting paid $175k and not donate anything?
Everyone knows that socially paid things are wrong, and that everything should be private.
No one wants public fire departments, schools, legal systems, police, etc etc. Only socialist countries do this.
Where I live, we have private fire departments because the government one's are not maintained and the ambulances are being used as taxis.
Socialism + corruption (and that the only kind we get) is way worse than you can imagine. Especially for the poor.
Can imagine still don’t see it. Communism + corruption, sure.
Now since I'm not native I think I might have explained myself wrong; see sibling comment (to yours) I made clarifying what I meant.
X harm + Y good > X harm + 0 good
- with fewer people interested in working at Evil Corp, salaries there will trend up and they may not be able to grow as much as a consequence.
- if the most skilled people don't want to work at Evil Corp, that also makes it harder to do evil.
I really hope people aren't using oversimplified analysis to justify working on evil stuff.
That’s not actually how it works. Maybe it’s 90% true, but the 10% matters, even if it is difficult to evaluate.
What is the impact of a position at Evil Corp staying open for 6 months longer than it would have otherwise if GP doesn’t take the job? I don’t know, that is a difficult question. But I know it isn’t zero impact.
Our actions matter.
This isn't true. Google allows you to "scale" your work (eg 80% pay for 80% time).
Not sure if your manager is forced to give you that option but it didn't seem to be hard to get at least. I think by default such requests gets accepted and your manager would need to give a good reason why you couldn't work part time.
Well.. sort of. My partner was doing 80% for 80% at goog for many years, which sounds like a good deal. Except the demands were more like 40-50 hours/week, with management always saying that full-timers were working way more than 50 hours, so at 80% salary you better be working 40-50hrs/wk.
In Europe such scaling is generally guaranteed by law, and I don’t think any big company would be stupid enough to be caught cheating. And based solely on anecdata I think at least as many people are “phoning it in” at Google as at any other company regardless of salary.
Hope it worked out for your partner. Being exploited with lots of privilege is still being exploited.
[0]: Google famously used to let workers spend 20% of their time working on anything they wanted (for the company’s benefit) but bad managers, which turned out to be most managers, did not reduce the load of “normal” work, so it became known as 120% time.
[edit] past tense, they may no longer work there
But then you just have more stress at work, and you just can't quit that easily bc there arent so many jobs that pay as much as this one...
Just to provide the other side of this general advice, that is really everywhere, but rarely delivers in regards to happiness.
This absolutely isn't a given. Lifestyle inflation to the extreme is in one's own hands first and foremost. Which is the most audacious part in this whole topic: yes your CoL is likely to be high if you earn such a giant income, but you are given options the majority of the west, let alone the world, will never have. As long as the percentage of one's income spent is roughly similar across all.
yes, but most people do that lifestyle inflation - by most I'm going to go with 90+ percent
The marginal value of a good software engineer is very high when there is good cash flow. It's difficult to increase cash flow without engaging in some software activity. Organizations tend to find that growing a large software organization is counterproductive to effective development vs. growing a better software organization.