It won’t make you an ML expert, but it’s like the difference between knowing how to write a sort function vs. only knowing how to call a sort function. Ideally, you understand both. Not saying you need to understand how every sort function works internally and write a proof for it… but a basic understanding is helpful.
Here's a nice, fairly detailed, summary - https://explained.ai/matrix-calculus/. But if you haven't taken undergraduate level single/multivariable calculus and linear algebra, I would take them from MIT Opencourseware even if it's just to fight off the impostor syndrome a little bit.
Most of the stuff that is valuable in practice does not require much math.
Many people believe math actually hindered the development of AI.
x * cos(x)
?https://www.amazon.com/Networks-Recognition-Advanced-Econome...
Another oldie-but-goodie is
https://www.amazon.com/Neural-Networks-Lecture-Computer-Scie...
which tells the secret of when to stop when you're doing "early stopping", something I've seen many modern deep learners fail to get right.
Off the top of my head I would say the fundamental math about deep networks is not really new. Most of the work in that field is pretty ad-hoc and not a lot is proven; probably people that are proving things are using difficult graduate-level math but you don't need to go there.
in practice, as long as you've studied basic calculus and understand how to find a minimum of a function via derivative you're good, there is your "gradient descent" in a nutshell: https://www.mathsisfun.com/calculus/maxima-minima.html
everything else is plug-and-play from existing libraries
you can ask any "data scientist" or "ML engineer" what they do all day, it's a whole lot of copy paste, and tweaking the data and parameters through trial and error until it fits
Edit: Ok , it would also help to understand dimensionality reduction via PCA/SVD at least once, it's available in any linear algebra book: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Singular_value_decomposition , https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Principal_component_analysis that's probably the best and most "scientific" part of ML