I know my wife basically keeps in touch with all of her family through Facebook. I try to avoid that because I've always posted more liberally there, but I connect with all my family (including my 90 year-old grand mother) through whatsapp.
There's a real benefit from having a public registry that everyone signs up to.
Is there? or is there a benefit from having a communications platform that is easy to use.
if there was a public utility that allowed you to contact anyone on the planet and all you needed to know was their userID would that not meet 80% of the functionality without these scathing problems? Maybe you could use some kind of federated system that allowed operators local to each cohort of people to moderate abuse properly.
(I'm joking of course, this is somewhat how the phone system works).
It seems similar to deleting your Facebook account every year.
still i frequently call and get called by people _directly_ (business and personal) and i don't see that changing until neccessitated by latency or bandwidth constraints (eg. interplanetary communication)
facebook is less of a public registry than the phone system thou.
ppl are still exchanging identifiers after meetings
Are you aware that you can take phone numbers with you when you change providers? As for the other point: they're addressable on the entire planet, you can be sure everyone has one and it's not tied to a singular company.
So, while I'm joking about the equivalency, you said that a "registry that everyone on the planet was on" was the value add- I'm suggesting, somewhat tongue-in-cheekly, that we have such a system.
phone number is a username in a worldwide public registry
It makes it easy to stay connected with and re-engage with people in your social group.
It managed the spam problem reasonably well (those Ray Ban scams are a relatively infrequent problem).
It makes to easy to start, run, find, and join niche interest groups. I'm in a dance community that would find it much harder to find each other's events without Facebook Events. My wife is in a vintage community that carries out low-friction international vintage clothing exchanges through Facebook Groups.
There are communities using Facebok to run small businesses and serve their communities.
Oh and I change my phone number when I change phone company because it's easier than not.
Now, I also think there are things wrong with Facebook and with how the network effect impacts on its competition. I think it could use oversight and regulation. But your naysayers are unimaginative children. Of course Facebook provides societal benefits. Get real.
Another positive is my drone hobby has lots of groups on Facebook where members share information and help each other across the globe.
Another positive is that my local buy nothing group helps neighbors out by giving things away for free to neighbors in need.
Almost none of the negatives of Facebook brought up in recent discussions apply to me because I don't go looking for it and if I see them I tell Facebook not to show me things like that and then it doesn't. People act like you can't curate your experience.