Do. Not. Use. Telegram.
Do. Not. Use. Telegram.
I think Telegram is a good trade off for group chats, personally. It's feature rich compared to others.
Source: this is what I do, except for the knitting. Telegram for talking to the family, XMPP standby on the server-under-the-stairs for when the going gets tough, with Conversation (which supports OMEMO) installed on target devices.
I don't want to have to decide if every message I send is sensitive or not, then if it is, swap to a totally different app. Even worse: convincing friends and family to do the same!
Only those messages which are sensitive enough should be sent over the secure channel, the rest goes over Telegram. Assuming that you're not a full-time professional anarchist of the comic-book type (picture man in cloak with a lit bomb in hand) you won't have all that many messages which are so sensitive that you don't want to run the risk of the enemy getting hold of them so don't worry, you'll be fine. As said, there is always the end-to-end encrypted 'private chat' function in Telegram for exchanging passwords and such, those have not caught the ire of the handwave-brigade (yet).
> Even worse: convincing friends and family to do the same!
Unless they're all wearing black cloaks while holding lit bombs in their hands (see above) the same goes for them. It is not the knitting patterns the enemy is interested in. Even more, the enemy might become suspicious if you all of a sudden stop sharing them in such a way that it might be theoretically feasible to decrypt them. What are you planning on knitting next, they'll wonder, sweaters with subversive messages on them? Before you know it they'll be hiding bugs in your cereal, and I don't mean weevils.
For the remaining people who are concerned about privacy there are plenty of options.
Telegram was good enough for people to use during actual protests in authoritarian regimes (Iran: https://dayan.org/content/demonstrations-islamic-republic-te... and Belarus: https://dayan.org/content/demonstrations-islamic-republic-te...).
Meanwhile Signal adds some bullshit cryptocoin to their app, no thank you.